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Lows & Highs: 4/17-4/30/13

Lows:
1) I started drafting a tentative schedule for the day of the wedding and it looked like I would have to start getting ready at 6:30 a.m. (which seems far too early).  Brian and I talked about what truly matters to us on the schedule, though, and pared it down so I can start at seven. I know it is only 30 minutes later, but it seems much more reasonable in my mind.

2) I went clothes shopping by myself, spent hours trying on lots of stuff, and did not find garments that fit well. I finally stopped for a hazelnut Americano and a blueberry scone when I realized I was tired, frustrated, and hungry. I felt much better after that.

Highs:
1) Brian and I met up with our good friends, Jon and Priscilla, for dinner and our last scheduled premarital counseling meeting before the wedding. (Jon is going to be our officiant.) Since we had not seen them in weeks, we had a good visit with lots of catching up on plans and travels.

2) I went shopping for wedding and reception decor and found everything I was looking for that day at very reasonable prices!

3) I tried on my wedding dress for my first fitting and it looked even better than I remembered! In addition, jewelry I already have looks terrific with it.

What were your lows and highs from the past week?

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Lows & Highs: 4/10-4/16/13

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Low: I had an intense headache that began suddenly on Sunday night and subsided a bit but still hung on for most of Monday.

Highs: First, I received some sweet and surprising gifts on my birthday this week (courtesy of Melissa and Brian). Second, Brian and I got to spend most of Saturday together when we met halfway to do some household and wedding shopping. We actually found everything on our (read: my) list. While we were there, I also had a chance to claim my birthday gifts from Panera Bread and Starbucks.

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Memphis Trip Day 5

This morning, we visited a nursing home where I visited first with Pete* and then with Mary Lou*. Pete is from Arkansas and used to be a music teacher. He also played the French horn all over this side of the country and as far west as Abilene, Texas. He has played in Ringling Bros Circus and the Memphis Symphony, too. He doesn’t have family around anymore; he has a step-son somewhere but does not hear from him. Pete is a bit forgetful and very hard-of-hearing now, so our conversation required some repeating, but I enjoyed hearing about his life.

Mary Lou has a sharp mind and wit even though she gets recent events mixed up occasionally. She will turn 100 on April 7 and I hope I’m as lively and sweet as she is when I’m that age!

At Bible club, Julia told the story of God providing manna in the desert. I led the crafts where each kid decorated a paper bag with markers and a “plaque” that said God cares for me. While they sang a couple songs at the end of the afternoon, we filled the bags with their promised “surprise” – care packages provided by our church at home. As the kids left, we returned their bags with instructions to hold them tightly closed until they got home. They were so excited!

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Memphis Trip Day 4

Today has been fun and exhausting because we got to have “kid time” in both the morning and afternoon. I am posting more photos than previous days but limiting my words tonight. We spent the morning doing activities like games, Bible lessons, and crafts with a group of elementary students at a school run by Brinkley Heights. In the afternoon, we had our regular neighborhood Bible club and had somewhere around 27 kids. (We had some late arrivals, so I may have miscounted.)

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Memphis Trip Day 3

Today was our first day to “get out and do stuff.” Our group, combined with another college team, visited an independent living facility for senior citizens. I worked with most of the others, organizing their library while some students played music and sang, some helped decorate for Easter, and some helped with other activities.

When the library was finished, Brian and I and a couple students sat down for a sweet visit with two chatty ladies named Miss Anna* and Miss Francine*. As they told stories about their lives before and at the center, several of their friends wandered past and stopped to meet us too. They may always be popular, but I like to think that sitting in the midst of “young” visitors gave them a little more street cred… Or whatever the senior citizen equivalent is!

After a late lunch, we set up for backyard Bible club and then combed the neighborhood for kids to invite. Altogether, we ended up with about 19 kids, a mom, and a dog! Conner and Julia and I led the group in rousing choruses of Father Abraham, Every Move I Make, and Lord I Lift Your Name on High (I just demonstrated the actions).

After singing, we broke into age groups that rotated between three stations. Andrew and Jennifer energetically led the games; Conner and Scottie creatively told the story of Moses and the burning bush; Julia & I guided crafts; Carol and Jessica were floaters and helped out wherever needed. Brian was our timekeeper and, together with three of the Street Reach staff, helped with behind the scenes things the rest of us barely noticed but kept us running smoothly. Many of us are already bonding with one or more of the kids and they with us. I asked several of the kids if they would hold up their crafts so I could take a photo and they all wanted their photos with me. I also got lots of hugs as we began walking them home!

I took the first photo below as we walked around the neighborhood this afternoon. I noticed several small churches and one had a cross in the corner of its lot. As I walked, the cross lined up with the rubble of a torn-down house and a still-standing but condemned house behind it. To me, it represented the hope that Christ offers even in bleak circumstances and that local believers have been shining hope here long before we arrived and will continue long after we leave. We are simply here to help out for a week and maybe to be a link in a chain of believers connecting people to Christ. 20130318-195917.jpg

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The funny quote for today was a conversation between Conner and one of the kids:

Conner: I’m a farmer
Danny*: No you’re not!
Conner: Yeah, see, I’m wearing boots!
Danny: So does my sister.

*Not their real names.

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Memphis Trip Days 1-2

I’m blogging on my phone, so please excuse any weird formatting or errors. On day #1 of our spring break mission trip to Memphis, Tennessee, Brian’s group came east and picked ours up on the way to Little Rock, Arkansas. The nine of us (four adults and five students) met our hostesses for the night at IHOP for dinner… At the smallest IHOP with the smallest IHOP parking lot I’ve ever seen. Backing and parking the full-size van with trailer was certainly an exciting and humorous experience! As you can see in the photo, the waitress made Andrew’s night when she accidentally made two iced mochas instead of the one he ordered and then gave him the second one free!

On day #2, we went to an Anglican Church (my first time) and then headed the last few hours to Memphis. We are keeping a list of funny quotes and have already collected over 20. Here is one for you to enjoy…

Conner: I never stayed in a prison before.
Julia: First time for everything!

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Field Notes on Dating #1-5

For the first post of my new Field Notes series, I have selected five Notes on dating, based completely on my experience and what I have observed.

1. If you search the web for romantic gestures for ladies to do for their boyfriends and eliminate all the ones better-suited for married, parenting, and/or cohabiting couples, there is a surprising lack of creative ideas out there.

2. A new dating relationship often inspires women to bake cookies, even if they are normally averse to cooking and baking.

3. The cuteness of coupledom can make friends simultaneously “aww” and gag. If the couple in question tends toward excessive PDA*, there is probably more gagging. I am told by an anonymous source that throwing soft foam darts or other projectiles is a good way to distract and dissuade an offending twosome.

4. I initially had my doubts but kite-flying is a fun date.

5. Not every real relationship is “Facebook official” and that is okay. Social media never tells the whole story anyway.

Being in love is a good thing, but it is not the best thing. – C.S. Lewis

What are your random observations about dating?

*Public Displays of Affection defined as excessive by anyone other than the couple.

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Lows & Highs: 2/4-2/12/13

Lows
1. Tuesday night at class, I spent the first hour doing the administrative work of testing instead of the teaching work I love. I was grateful to have my assisting teacher there and she cheerfully went through the planned activity with the class until I could get there. I did enjoy getting to teach and interact with students during the second half of the class, though.

2. I keep growing frustrated – mostly at myself – for being unable to do everything on my to-do list. Between my own expectations and those of others, my to-do list grows long in a hurry and I am still unskilled at delegating and telling people “no.” I keep forgetting that God gives me enough time to accomplish everything He wants me to do but not necessarily to do everything I think I must do.

Highs
1. Friday night at class, I taught a lesson based on drawing your own family tree and got all but one of my fifteen students chattering enthusiastically and practicing their English!

2. On a shopping trip in a nearby city with my parents, we accomplished all our errands and went to Panda Express and Starbucks! Oh, and my dad decided to join Twitter while we were on that shopping trip. So far he doesn’t tweet but treats it more like a personalized news feed.

What were your lows and highs from the past week?

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Lows & Highs: 1/23-1/29/13

Low: On Monday, my landlord called to tell me that a technician was on site needed to work on cables in the attic of my apartment building. The attic that can only be accessed through the closet of my back bedroom. The back bedroom that is messy and so full of stuff it looks like a hoarder lives there. So they saw my mess before I had a chance to hide or clean it. *sigh*

High: I had the fun of role-playing, playing dress-up, and sleuthing on Friday. My friends Shannon and Brian (my long-time friend the great game player and theatre buddy, not my fiance) hosted their second annual murder mystery party, Murder at Deadwood Saloon. I will not give away the plot because you may want to try it yourself. I played Minnie Money, an eighteen-year-old Chicago debutante who traveled to Deadwood with her parents and tries to run as wild as her heart pleases. My Brian (this one is the fiance) had a last-minute character change and played Gambler Jack, a professional gambler who came to Deadwood with his wife (Annabelle the Southern belle) for a poker tournament.

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Lows & Highs: 1/16-1/22/13

Low: I woke with a splitting headache on Saturday and, though it subsided to a dull ache, it lasted all day. Nevertheless, I enjoyed talking through some of the discussion questions for premarital counseling, watching Les Miserables, and going to a local talent show that day.

Highs: While I was visiting for the weekend, Brian and I took the opportunity to have fun with hospitality. We baked cookies (really I baked while he made dinner) for game night with college students and then taught them how to play Sequence. We also had friends over for taco salads after church on Sunday.

 

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